I've just read the very heart breaking news on internet. It about 5 years old boy who get sexual abuse at his school by the cleaning service, and it happen when the class still run.
"M" the boy just asked the permit to the teacher to go to toilet,and he went by him self...In the toilet,there is one young women which it the cleaning service told him that he has to get the punishment because "M" just pee on not appropriate place,and it make the toilet dirty...So,the women just remove "M' pants and hit him,after that the women asked "M" to stayed in the toilet with another man, and the man do the sexual abuse to "M"
The sexual abuse just continues,not only one time,but many times...Not only one person,but "M" said 5 person,including the women who removed his pant and hit him. Until "M" 's mother found a blue spot on "M"'s body...She asked..."what happen?" "M" said he just get bump with the table...But "M"'s mother not really sure for what his son told her...She asked more, why M wear the changing uniform from the school many times, and M said it because he was pee in the class,so M's mother continues asked, why M not goes to the toilet and M's mother get really really super shock answer from M...
M said, I don't want to go toilet mummy,cos there are bad and scary person...And M tell everything about what he has passed...
I can't imagine how she felt, but as a mother I just very sure that she was breaking because even I just really get heart breaking when I read the news, even hurt then when my ex boy friend leave me ...I don't know who is M, I don't know his parents....I even has no connection with them! Only as a mother, as parents from the child who connect us.
I could not imagine if what M has passed also happen to my daughter, I think I could crazy but as a parents we have to be strong cos our child need us to be with them....
Nothing I could do about this,only angry, and sad in my heart...Really I'm broken....
What M and any other M in the world has passed, makes me think to educate my daughter about to protect her self from the sexual abuse...Because I never always be with her every time...
So I just start to make a rhyme and read it with her everyday... And I just make list who are the person who allow to touch her...Well,maybe it not much but at least I try to prevent my daughter from the predator.
Here is the example rhyme that I always read with my daughter :
This is my body and I love it
Not everybody can touch it
Only the people on my Mummy list
Even Daddy can not touch it
So go away cos you're not on her list
If you still stay I'll tell the police
Well,maybe it not much but I just try to educate my daughter about it...The earlier she knew it, I think it really much better.
Well,for all the parents in the world...beware for the predator who always try to gobble our child, do very good communication with them, pay a lot of attention to the them though you are really busy...Just give them some understanding about the sexual education, just explain about it with the children way...
We not only the biological parents, we also their best friend, so they can share everything with us...Make them feel really safe when they talk with us....
Well...I'm not a psychog or the best mum in the world, I even never know what will happen with my daughter,but as a mother I'll do everything to protect her cos she is the best part of my live...
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